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integral-area… at work yes, at home … I am struggling. There are lot of things I have adapted to, but some habits or manners … it’s not working with me (yet). Those kind of habits are sharing, asking for help, Grog (to an extent).
Sharing food is just something that wouldn’t come to my mind. Everyone around me would share their lunch or snacks, even with me … but do you think I offer mine? This idea is not popping up in my head. Either this option just doesn’t exist or there is a missing trigger. Obviously I haven’t tried hard enough yet and it is for sure not high on my priority list. But from time to time I am noticing this behavior. Then I try to offer, but I have the impression people don’t take food here from white people or they don’t like my cooking 😉 . So, I am not putting it up on my priority list or my resolutions for next year. However, I will keep monitoring it.
Asking for help … yeah, being raised as an independent women living by herself most of the years … I am not asking. Then people come and offer help. I accept it, but sometimes I really don’t want help and at that point it becomes annoying. Because then I feel obliged to give back the favour. The thing I wanted to avoid from the beginning. I think I need to resort my approach here. Now that I am writing it down it feels rude from my side. Sure, you always will have people that come and help and want something in return.But I want to look at it differently, so it doesn’t give my life this negative spin. Any suggestions or ideas?
Drinking Yaqona .. that’s Fiji. And yes, I am enjoying it from time to time. But I prefer to control it too, like I don’t want to drink grog every day. I don’t want to drink grog after midnight, especially during working days. I still get the feeling that I have better things to do than sitting there doing nothing … is that called socializing? Hahahaha!

Just my 2 cents for today … still missing a proper timing to get back to regularity on posting.

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You don’t know until you ask

You don't know if you don't ask
You don't know until you ask

Network marketing is a business for everyone, for stay-at-home mums, the executive assistant or the small business owner.

We have all done that, pre-judged people by their appearance, success or social status. We make the decision ourselves whether a person will join our team or not based on the impression we have. But how many times have we been wrong and missed out on a great leader in our team?

We will never know for sure what motivates any one person, but you can be sure that getting her/him on your team would contribute to both of your success.

Why you want to approach already successful people?

  • Money isn’t everything People want to be part of a community. Business women want to stay home and change their income stream and others are looking for another challenge
  • Success breeds success Already successful people know that they are able to succeed. But everyone can do a little better 😉
  • Appearances can be deceiving It is easy in our society to live beyond your means whatever lifestyle you are currently living in. People are always looking for better quality and quantity. Having a big paycheck doesn’t mean fulfillment from the job. Being your own boss and working from home can mean the world to people.

Again, you don’t know until you ask. The worst thing that can happen is just a simple “no”. And this only brings you closer to your next “yes”.